Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?
This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
It is a sad predicament he is in, but nothing really we can do about his money debts. If there would be good people that could try and pay off his debts then that is the best thing for him. However, the root of the problem has not been solved. The problem here is that he is an addicted gambler and he does not even want to work to pay off his debts then we cannot do anything about him.
it would be a miracle if someone suddenly arrived and paid off all the debts he had,
but this would be impossible
because rarely is there anyone who can help the gambler regardless of the debt winding that he is suffering
except for his parents who helped him
IN real time it is not possible, nowadays there is no helping nature like this. People all become selfish if they have enough money also they will not help others who are in trouble. So as you said the parents or brothers or sisters only the family members can help. The friends and other people just give free advice nobody will help.
and this is real happening,
friends can only help morally.
this may be of little help to us
and for the next we must be able to try to get out of debt.
and I'm a little suggesting here to keep our own effort without asking anyone to help pay off the debt.
because if we can get out of debt by own business of course we will be happier when that time happens
A gambler needs attention from friends or any family member, that's why it kept on a recurring situation that they went on debt most of the time. They've seek attention most of the time from their reliable sources, and borrowed more money just to satisfy their gambling motives. Getting out of a debt will not happen if a gambler doesn't change his attitude and never cut the gambling activities he had in his life.
if this happens and all debts that have occurred because of gambling,
meaning gambling is not suitable for the job
the best advice is to avoid and get out of gambling.
but all of this will come true when many people support it mentally.
because the gambler must be approached emotionally.
so that they realize that gambling will only make them miserable in life