I doubt we can coordinate to be there at the same time and spend the time. Not that I see a slack invitation in the OP anyway.
But really all I need is a good guide. I don't see any for bitsend, not even in the official forums and I doubt I could follow one from another coin without issues.
We had guide, but i cant find it anymore.
I can translate to english my "old" guide, if you wish.
But it is without build notes.
ALSO
Have you tried to autoinstall?
https://github.com/dArkjON/BSD-Masternode-Setup-1404