What are the best decentralised exchanges out there, and why are they good?
All asset platfroms have it like Etehreum, Counterparty, NXT, ETC, waves, bitshares... but you can only trade asset that was issued on their platform.
I think most popular decentralized exchange where you can trade different coins is the one that used to be called bitsqare and was latter renamed to
https://bisq.network/ Sadly had only 3 BTC volume today

IF we will not start using decentralized exchanges then they will never get alive.