You need to adapt to it, most of the holders are never moving their funds because of fees, try to find the best option that suites to you and your needs.
You can buy bitcoins in coinbase, trade on gdax, and do many other things.
If you want to buy bitcoin without paying fees, buy on localbitcoins, and then send those to electrum.
Localbitcoin fees are less than $0.50 (because you pay only your input)
Fees were going to be $14. Wow! Needless to say I didn't proceed. Then I tried many other values to see if it was value dependent and it wasn't. Are all fees typically in that range?
And no, the fees are going to be normal in a few days from now, bitcoin did more than 80% in a week, everything is still collapsed