I have the Electrum wallet. I have a two transactions marked as NOT VERIFIED after 5 days. this is ridiculous. The "slider" is no longer in the preferences. I am guessing upgrading the fees after the transaction will not affect the transfers in progress.... Urgh. Who distributes an installer without warning the users of this choice at INSTALL TIME

I like the wallet and I understand the network is congested, but my xfers to another broker are confirmed within a day.

With market volatility like this I need to trade these coins. I assume I cannot xfer them from my Electrum wallet until they have been confirmed?

What wallet has the best control of fess and makes it really obvious and user friendly to understand. Which wallet has the best reputation for fast confirmations due to their effective contril of fees?