All, I appreciate the help. Looks like it confirmed overnight when I was sleeping at 2A my time. (about 18 total hours) Can I control the fee coinbase at all or should I just accept it's going to be forever with the congestion of the network? I'll try an accelerator program next time but if it doesn't who up in the diff locations, I can't accelerate it right?
You can accelerate it with viabtc it is a free accelerator for unconfirmed transaction I don't know how that works but all I know is there's a lot of free accelerator in
Service section if you look around it you can try to ask for their help
I think you only put a 20satoshi per bytes that's why it takes so long to be confirmed by the network because miners priority is to confirmed the highest satoshi per bytes transaction.