Most miners only support stratum so they can't directly connect to the daemon. It's best to set up your own mining pool software such as node-cryptonote-pool, point it to your daemon and mine to it.
node-cryptonote-pool indeed did the trick without too much hassle:

Good bye high pool fees

To say thank you feel free to post your FBF address and I'll match you an airdrop ammount.

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Nice try

Was FBF already requested on yobit?
https://yobit.net/en/addcoin/I'd fill it up myself but I'm unsure about secp256k1 ver and devs email

We´ve filled the form a few times but not even an automated receipt response until today, and we trying to avoid Yobit.
FreelaBit, as all Cryptonote coins, uses Curve25519 instead of Bitcoin core secp256k1 so the answer on that field in the form should be NO, email is
contact@freelabit.xyzMeanwhile, voting is still open on:
https://feedback.altcoinexchange.com/suggestions/2101/add-freelabit-fbf-coin2.8K votes and counting...!!!