Forgot to add. 

I sent a  2nd Tx that did work as a test, after that I did the zapwallettxes command while reopening Bitcoin Core, and the original 0.1 show up there and the old TX that gave the parse error is gone,

but I cannot send that BTC.  Any time I try the Tx does not show up on blockchain.info.  Have tried this twice now.

So still do not have access to the 0.1 BTC