So my main goal is getting rid of that first TX right ?
Edit: Can Btc.com help me with that stuck min fee tx , they want $74 for it ? Does it make it worse doing this for the first small transaction?
and it seems both txs have been dropped by most nodes, so you can re-create/re-send with better fee now
I replied your post in someone else's thread, quoted above
can't you re-create the transaction with Bitcoin Core wallet? both are removed from bc.info
if you can't broadcast from your wallet, push it to bc.info or other nodes accepting pushtx