This is actually the biggest problem of BTC, we have to hope that this will be better in the future. That is also one point where altcoins are much more better then BTC in the moment.

Two months ago i wanted to trade 0.01 BTC and the fees were about 5€ and i thought that this is very expensive but now it is more then 10€. So the only thing that you can do is to use a wallet were do you can do custom fees but then the transaction will take a lot of more time.