Lets look at that gold analogy some more.
The situation is you have one person hand delivering gold from Rome to Naples. This is bitcoin.
On chain scaling: Person makes the gold into jewelry so they can carry more, they can wear a bunch of chains and wear a bunch of rings etc.
Off chain scaling: The person carries gold IOU's so the gold doesn't actually have to move at all.
Clone scaling: You get 15 people to carry the gold instead of one person.