transaction id: 0cd5edf1c339ce6a5d8e62bc1897bdebf0b087e7a14cc49f06270e1b575ddf96
sender/receiver: receiver (and also sender, but from an online exchange service account on IndependentReserve so I dont fully control wallet)
addresses: 1NwH7g6JSuyqNYfnJFS49dRTyZ6AdPuCkF is my address, 1J948EMDqPdEAqphjAGEbFDWHyFnDRo1rM is the sender's address (and their change address is 1Nhzwjrt7rmQUCcCob3umHcMMkEe2pNCyS)
wallet software: IndependentReserve website
mempool: yes, i have checked http://www.mocacinno.com/page/getraw, entered my transaction id, and i was shown the raw transaction, so this transaction is in your mempool
something strange: no, i have checked for unconfirmed parents, dust outputs and double spends on blockchain.info, and could not find any anomalies
rectified situation: yes, I wont use Independent Reserve for these, as they picked the fee, AND i'll use http://www.mocacinno.com/page/feeestimate for a second opinion
tip: yes, once I can access any BTC, or can send LTC or BCH.
Thanks!