since I'm undecided on whether i want to forego the item entirely.
How is it fair to the person who lent you the coins if you decide to forgo the item? The lender is now stuck with something he has to sell.
I was undecided as to whether I wanted to sell the account entirely or have the luxury of getting it back; it's a tough decision to make. If I do choose to lend the item, it means I will want it back, if I do choose to sell the item, it means I don't want it back. I wanted to give myself 2 options and than when i make my choice, I will have candidates lined up already.
Whatever, I guess you can't be the perfect forum police, it happens.