I am a fan of byteball as well and I have invested half of my portfolio in byteball and blackcoin. I am convinced that it is one of the best coin in the cryptoworld at the moment and it will ultimately reach the top. New technology, fair distribution, aimed to have real usage and no bullshit or fairy tails to pump the price.
Perhaps you made 2 choices that were right for me, separated from my wife and made promising investments. In the future, your wife will not spend your income.