Woah. Too much.

1. Don't be a homophobe

2. Don't be such a hideous and despicable human being.

3. Saying 'No' to escrow is saying 'Yes, this is a scam'. There is literally no reason for a genuine seller to not want to use it as it does not release your identity as you said (which means you don't understand escrow), and there is no reason you wouldn't be able to post a picture of the hardware you're selling with you Display Name in the image.

These are simple requests which you can't compl with, meaning you're not only a homophobe, but that you are also a scammer. You're really winning at life!

Give me an image with the hardware plus your name in the photo and I will transfer you BTC (or lady's choice of coin) right now. Otherwise, kindly piss off.