after marriage, because if before the marriage we think is just ourself, different when has married we have to equate the ego with other people (wife) that's the real life.
My life before im not yet marriage is cool...i can go everywhere i want and i can do what i wanted to do...my life is like a princess...but when i got married my life become misserable because im not lucky in husband...No days that im crying since im married...even when i have a child..i wasnt happy at all because of my situation in my husband..its so awfull untill one day in past many years we decide to separate each other..so now im a little bit ok...After all...
So life got a little bit better after escaping from the marriage prison.