worked with this adress, but without SSL...that is not so clear for me, I though verge is secure and anonymous and going through the TOR network, but is this possible without ssl 
Verge is 'secure' (as almost every cryptocurrency in the top 30 at the moment) and anonymous.
SSL (which by the way is called TLS now) [1] is neither required for the security- nor for the anonymity-element.
The only possible attack (without usig TLS) would be that an attacker could rig the the TX history, .. .
This requires the attacker to sit inbetween you and the node you are connectig to (Man-in-the-Middle[2]).
without SSL it works for me too. Is that a problem? can i do something wrong when i connect without SSL??
No, everything is fine.
You don't have to connect via SSL (new name: TLS).
[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transport_Layer_Security
[2] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Man-in-the-middle_attack