Your not alone in this situation and hoping that bitcoin developers do a concrete solution to this situation that we have in transaction, great to know their is a plan but found it not that good enough
By the help segwit2x activation this time, everyone expected the bitcoin transaction fees will be reduced and block size increased with the faster confirmation time. But unfortunately nothing happened this time.
Everyone holding bitcoin waiting for the right price bumps and fees reduction with the increase of blocks.
I expect this has been changed with in some weeks for sure.