everyone is free to fork off with their new and improved bitcoin instead of whining and bitching here to no end.
I don't think anyone doesn't understand that.
The point is, how do we reach agreement, not what to do if we can't agree.
we who? agree on what? bitcoin is the bitcoin currently bought and sold at $16K by those who vote by putting their coins/money where their mouth is. Those who disagree/don't like the product have infinite alternatives, including doing their own thing.