thanks for taking a look for me b74bbf6c8c605bb4b6be9fd4d8ffa79ca2290d893c6768cd1461ddf3a07f5168 this is the payment that is stuck because one of the imputs is unconfirmed on the blockchain. it wont seem to let me private message you more then 1 per hour sorry
The problem with this transaction is that it is dependent on this huge transaction 82c12079724478950b08c7e95a46dd21e95e88ed79583ec10b662c2cf3dd4efe that seems to be coming from some kind of service, like an exchange or online wallet or something, because of it's size and volume.
Responsibility of this transaction should be on that service for making such huge transactions with fees not big enough. If you remember from where you received 0.1 BTC to this address 342NGGYnhqu4m4ABocZGu9LAwwWogT6BCc, then you should ask them to use CPFP method or pay for acceleration.
It is not fair for a single user to bear burden of such huge transactions that involve so many other users.