hi thanks for the input , I already upgraded my electrum wallet , and also made a new segwit wallet there but couldnt find deference between fees there 
Do you use electrum 3.0.5 ?? It's important as a vulnerability has been found in electrum 2.6 to 3.0.4. I guess you do.
You can set a custom fees to transact using segwit address, even though it's not so significant as current mempool seems flooded with too many unconfirmed transactions. At least, you and the destination address have to use segwit.
First, you have to set the electrum wallet;
- Tools > preferences > Fees
- Enable (use dynamic fees)
- Enable (edit fees manually)
And now you are ready to set custom fees to send bitcoin.
Make sure to check recommended fees for current network.