thanks torba, would there be a resource where i could learn to use bitcoind for this type of process to talk with my website? if someone has written the code i'd be willing to pay some bitcoins for it, but most of the resources don't seem very good.
Using bitcoind is as easy as installing a library in most languages, search around for your desired language. Node.JS is what I prefer, it's pretty simple with node actually:
https://github.com/freewil/node-bitcoin