FWIW, there was one thing in this ordeal that really rubbed me the wrong way...
When Bruce from BFL called, he made the "under review" status sound like a punishment for my complaining to PayPal. He seemed surprised that I didn't care about being taken out of the queue. I think that was the only card they had.
Again, don't take this lying down. If you want your money back, take it.
You should have just said that if they shipped your units right away, you will give up inquiring about the refund
