This is the most unexplainable topic in this forum, the hardest question that a man can have.
I, myself cant understand it too, once they are mad you need to please them and make them comfortable.
but, when you are mad and you didn't talk to them, they will just get mad on you too. soo selfish!
once you tell them that you will go out with your friend, they will say yes to you and will be mad at you once you go out with your friend. what a creature!