I have found that it takes a lot of self improvement to attract girls to me. Also patience and faith. I'm really quiet so opening up with small talk is just about the hardest thing I have tried to do. But if I workout, find passion through hobbies and interact with the local community, occasionally someone falls upon me. More importantly, it is usually someone I enjoy spending time with because we are both focused on our mutual interests and not so much trying to impress the opposite sex.

If I were you, I would improve your odds by trying yoga. Lots of ladies in yoga. Every time I go to a studio or retreat, the ratio of girls to guys is at least 5:1.

But the odd thing is that once I am experiencing this balanced and motivated passion for a hobby that is attracting women towards me, I often don't feel the need to "get girls". It's almost like the needing feelings fall away and all that is left is content with friendship.