This is my bolt.conf that works with the miners:
rpcuser=boltrpc
rpcpassword=password
rpcport=11991
rpcallowip=123.123.123.123
addnode=71.207.40.105
addnode=177.38.103.122
addnode=73.237.102.32
addnode=104.131.51.223
addnode=45.76.115.23
server=1
listen=1
daemon=1
Update the password. Set the ip address to the IP of your miner.
I use this to start a miner:
cgminer.exe -o ip.ip.ip.ip:11991 -u boltrpc -p password
Beware the algo you use - it need to be the right blake or it just rejects. In ccminer, its -k blake, cgminer --blake256 etc.
But this should get you connecting and then you can see if your blocks mine. If they just reject - probably the wrong blake.
Thanks a lot, getting Connection refused, can be the problem in the VRM i thing. Dont have other explanation why i cant connect .I am gonna wait for the pool.