3) That's going to be an extreme hassle but if you're going to hodl this could be possible.
4) If you're only planning on buying ERC20 tokens.
5) Exodus, https://www.exodus.io/ Jaxx, https://jaxx.io/ ( I believe they had security issues in the past so use with care. Coinomi -https://coinomi.com/ ( Android/IOS) over 270 coins.
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