Have to agree with the other posters here: I have no idea whether your scamming. You probably aren't, but how do I know? This is why I donate to reputable, audited charities only.
My advice is to bet everything you have on BTC and if you win the musical chairs game, you can buy a kid, I mean pay the fees. Alternative plan: go to Vegas and bet it all on black, as many times as you need to double your money.
If it works out, you can contact me for tip address.
(Sorry to be lighthearted about adoption. It's very cool what you're doing.)