Let ICO holders automatically send coins to your Ethereum wallet just after receiving your Ethereum
Just like, betrium.co is doing.
KYC is really useless for crypto currency traders.
I believed that the best way is to screen out scam ICO by have it regulated by the government in this way the government well required the ICO owners to submit necessary documents for them to have permit to do business and also know your costumer which is commonly called as KYC is must be always in effect.