When life after the wedding changes, it seems that the feelings are cooling down. This often occurs when your marriage coincides with a new stage in the relationship. This stage, when you start to get annoyed by some habits of your spouse (gee), when you are angry with something that you didn't even pay attention to before, when you discover some new household (and not only) habits that you do not like . All this boils down to one thing: you have moved from the stage of "rose-colored glasses" to the stage of "fighting for selfishness" or building boundaries.