Welcome newbie ! Does you configfile have the right name ( coinonatx.conf ) and add this is in the right directory (appdata ....)

My nodelist :

addnode=104.156.251.137:10001
addnode=104.238.174.230:9932
addnode=107.191.51.74:10001
addnode=108.61.117.143:9999
addnode=136.243.60.144:44678
addnode=150.107.31.222:9001
addnode=176.163.148.188:24366
addnode=176.192.81.162:44678
addnode=176.32.195.108:10001
addnode=18.216.2.228:10112
addnode=183.181.56.19:44678
addnode=193.70.109.114:44678
addnode=195.182.153.250:10001
addnode=23.95.222.159:44678
addnode=31.214.141.132:44678
addnode=37.221.199.28:44678
addnode=45.32.152.176:10003
addnode=45.77.88.54:44678
addnode=5.45.110.33:9998
addnode=5.9.148.98:44678
addnode=51.15.211.181:44678
addnode=52.33.135.209:9998
addnode=66.70.222.129:44678
addnode=94.130.99.60:44679




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