In general if you're having arguments all the time, you should think about your behaviour, too.

But to understand "women" you have to understand that person.
They are also human and you can't just pidgeonhole them.

Just check out the others person behaviour and signs you will notice when that person is trying to "say" something.

For example, she dressed up or she went to a hair dresser. When that's usually not her normal behaviour, in that case she maybe just wants your attention.
And that's it. You don't have to interpret more and make it more complex.