You   hit it on the spot. Its because of that 2 words that you've used. Trust and respect. It's not healthy for a relationship to have the two parties check on each person's personal accesses. The other person would likely feel a liitle down because of that. A healthy relationship means giving each other a little space or privacy without being paranoid or thinking bad about your partner
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I strongly agree with your statement "The other person would likely feel a liitle down"
If you could share some unique idea on how to teach the partner to change for the better, would be appreciated.