Women's thinking is very active, do not use your thinking to understand them, because they are very susceptible to various aspects of the environment, my wife and I live together for 10 years, I sometimes difficult to understand her thoughts.
Oh no... don't talk like this. If you are married for more than 10 years, then by now you should be able to understand your wife. If that is not the case, then it means that you two are not interacting a lot with each other.