You should read this: "The Attraction Code by Vin Dicarlo"
I read it a few years back when i was into pick up artists, and found this one pretty interesting.
My tip: just focus on improving yourself and good things will come, being funny and working out can help too

I think that in the first place you have to live like that and treat everything as if you are the only one in the world and live happily in this world. That's when you always always pay attention.