hi guys !
heres some news.. i have 2 connection i put fresh nodes and remake the conf files
but i think that the wallet keep the old connection in memory not sure
so maybe if we can add node manualy i dont know how
but we need to know how to flush the old ip from the memory
but for now it work i have 3 connection now
i did the command Getpeerinfo in the console windows i have this 3 connection in the log those seem to work but it was from the last text files i think. ok thx for support

[
{
"addr" : "78.52.8.121:13373",
"services" : "00000001",
"lastsend" : 1518550561,
"lastrecv" : 1518550561,
"conntime" : 1518549786,
".................
]
You may still have old nodes in your 1337.conf file. Try replacing the .conf nodes with those active nodes above. Also, try deleting peers.dat from your 1337 folder to fresh start your peers storage.