Im Jr. Member now and i have no idea how to get merits for me to become Member. What to do ?
If you think your posts should be credited with a merit then have them reviewed by higher users with sendable merits (couple of threads are compiled below thanks to krish's post). More of them can be found on the
Meta section.
Or you can try easier way - post in meta, i've heard that is magic place from where merits are coming

It's not magic. Chances of getting merits in the Meta section is high because it's one of the places where threads are frequently viewed by higher/older members.