I would like to congratulate the question, i still have the same question to solve and we can observe that it does not yet have a "stop button" in transaction, I've lost a lot of Ether on this issue and it's interesting that one of the developers read this post.
I'm not a dev.
I am just scared of trying to send eth using 1 gas with 2100 gwei limit... Then suddenly they take away 1 eth in fees because the tx took days to complete....
I just want clarity.