thank you for the response, this is a lesson for me. then I will continue to learn to make useful posts for many people in this forum. sorry if my post is not good 
Your post is good. Is a question that deserves a fair answer because it is probably on the back of the minds of many people in the forum that feel the merit system is not fair for them. Everyone must let merit flow.
A completely different thing is to trade merit with alts. In you case it seems that is around 4 merit, which in my book is nothing BUT I am sure that the merit sources will eventually start compiling a list of the "un-meritable" and you have probably a place on it if you keep doing this.