I'm sorry for you. I'm not asking for your opinion or permission. I'm warning you about unethical people running an amateur hour shitshow. You're obviously heavily invested in NEM, and are going to be hurt in the crossfire when this team blows up under the light of close scrutiny.
95% of crypto is an unethical shit show, in relative terms NEM is pretty good, but obviously not perfect. I understand why you're pissed off, but I doubt NEM is going to blow up anytime soon, not from close scrutiny anyway. There's so many more dodgy crypto projects for people to go after, and NEM made decent attempts at every stage.
The only person involved who could possibly be under future threat of scrutiny is utopianfuture, and he decloaked a while ago, and is running a new project now, Tomo, and he doesn't look like he's exactly hiding from scrutiny, or worried.
Try and move on from this loss, who could have known what a NEM stake would be worth in Jan 2014.