Ok, the person has contacted me in a panic by email. He is really sorry and having anxiety attacks about it. From looking at his posts he doesn't seem to be scamming people. He felt desperate and explained why. His identity isn't really anonymous and after looking through some stuff it looks like they were telling the truth. He has promised to not try it again and that he was in a moment of weakness and thought it would fix his situation.
I know he could be lying. But I worry what if he wasn't and I told? But he truly seem scared of an internet mob and is sorry. I'm satisfied and I'll just have to have faith he was honest in the end. And to that person: Learn from this. Making bad choices WILL catch up to you. And keep your promise or you will make a fool of us both.
And now back to our scheduled discussion....