according to l posts that helpful certain must combined and published so that can so example for friend that in groups Forum this, problem discussion Merit, in fact posts that helpful that lndeed feasible, but do not be in Fokus posts that helpful only,for example :
1. can in value from words and language good from terms polite,authoritative and friendly,
2. many that can for get merit, that certainly that mentioned same agan, but please taken too steps that other for can participate for get it Merit.
You really need to improve your English before making posts in this section. It is very hard to understand and may give headache to some. I was only able to understand the first part where you mentioned that one should get merits for being friendly or polite. Sorry but this was not the purpose of merit system. It has been introduced so that members make sensible posts on this forum. For politeness and good character, you can get all my respect but not merits. Hope you will understand.