also a newbie can do a paid membership to get alot of the restrictions taken off. More "member like" treatment faster...
Just search Paid Membership... or go to
https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?action=credit;promote ... It will generate a unique payto btc address.
i just paid $20 USD .0002BTC and if was confirmed within 10min.
might recommend if you want to send more than 1DM an hr, etc