You can search and find such list through google, I used etherdelta, waves dex and one desktop dex I forgot its name. I think if you are interested in them you should really look at oax project.
Are you referring to Bisq? It's accessed on desktop using their Java-based client
Bisq is more like a peer to peer platform just like localbitcoins, no? I wanted to use it but their escrow seems a bit more complicated for me, and I seem to have had to wait very long times to get people to accept my trades, and I did not have the time to keep the client open for too long. It does have a very good interface though. And also better rates than localbitcoins. Just not that many actual local peer traders.
Bisq was one of first at that time called Bitsquare. I did not expected it will take so much time for decentralized exchanges to pop up. I dont monitor ICOs much but i believe there are quite some such projects. Eventualy with atomic swaps we will be exchanging coins thru that.