You haven't even listed the most active coins, XMR isn't even on top of that list.
Steem is actually the most active blockchain with the highest amount of transactions each day.
Source:
https://blocktivity.info/Is there any cryptocurrencies other than BTC and XMR that people are actually using?
Sure. The most popular currency for actual use is Ethereum. They had 704,590 transactions in the last 24 hours. Bitcoin only had 169,048 transactions.
Bitcoin is going backwards in terms of adoption and use, but Ethereum is going from strength to strength.
Where's your source that it's the most popular in terms of actual use?