Share life experiences. While you should not impose thoughts and feelings on others, you should not be too close. If you let others continue to talk without giving an opinion, chances are you to stay friends as small as people who talk too much. You do not have to tell your deepest and deepest secret to friends, especially when you're just starting to make friends and build trust. However, personal anecdotes are what unite people to one another. Sharing life experiences is the key to close friendship.