it's wrong from your side. it was necessary to explain to him that this is not correct!
not everyone can know what is allowed on the forum!
each of us was young and inexperienced

Being liberal to shitposters and beggars will only make this forum a bad place. Its not about giving you people a second chance - but its the way you act which explains a lot. People are supposed to "earn" merits by making constructive posts and using the merit they gain to rank up. It is not something to be offered for sale or donated or begged.
Begging for merits is the least possible bottomfeeder method to try to grab some merits. But dont worry anyone found begging for merits will be marked with red by DefaultTrust.