That may be cause there IS many in control of bitcoin

Seriously, go to
https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?board=6.0And see that the newly released 0.16 core is very active development
Do you own reaserch is not enough, read also the sources
Someone hurt because of love life s/he need is Quality time with family
Time spent with family can have magical effect on a hurt heart! Connecting with ones roots is exactly what a person needs when they are feeling down. Family gives a sense of belonging that no one else can give and for some people friends are the best family. If you know someone who is hurt, suggest that they should take a break and go visit loved ones.