but they also were paying extra when the fees were outrageously high,adding the difference from their pockets
This is not the right answer for taking high fees now when transaction fees are very less. No one was asked them to pay the transaction fee when fees were high but they did it because they wanted gamblers to choose their site for less transaction fee. But that doesn't mean that they should charge more now when fees are very less.
it is not,of course,the right answer
for some admins it takes ages to adapt to changes,some are very responsive
like yolodice or bustabit-they do change their withdrawal fees to be more adequate
yolodice can serve as a good example in this matter,think they have the lowest batch fee in the industry,used to be 15k
not sure how much nowadays since I don't have enough to check,the regular,instant fee is only 20k-not bad either
bitlser has several options to choose from and I like this approach the most
if I'm in no hurry I pick the minimal fee and it goes through just as fast nowadays,if I need my coins fast I pick the highest possible fee etc.
cryptogames have been adjusting their fees as well,to be fair,but they have always been among the highest fee charging sites as high as 100k out of 200k minimal withdrawal