As a woman who fear God, it is important to keep your body free from any immorality.  Your goal is to live a holy life and preserve your body for someone who deserves it. It's a woman's choice to keep her virginity and to avoid pre marital sex.  If you want to be worthy to your future husband, she will take care of it.

I think any man want to be the first on his wife.  They are proud of it. It will boost their ego. There are still some man who look for a virgin woman whom they will want to spent their life with.  That's good. It's their preference.